You're adding "god" to words and phrases that don't require it, and attempting to reframe the definition of god.
The reason a lot of atheists don't mutually respect or want to have dialogues with the religious is because the arguments are not equal. There is no evidence for the existence of god. Absolutely none. It's literally like arguing with a kid over the existence of Superman.
Not everyone's opinion is valid or rational, and religion has helped to bring us to this dark place where everyone is entitled to "their opinion," or to "agree to disagree," regardless of how ignorant or wrong they are.
Objective reality exists, and our standards for evidence rule out the belief in god just as they do the belief in Smurfs.